Being a Single MUVA

Over the past weekend, I had the joy of attending the wedding of my college friends, who also happen to be my son's godparents. Just a week before the wedding, I found myself grappling with life's complexities, particularly the challenges of postpartum. I remember reaching out to my friends, expressing my hesitation: "Postpartum is overwhelming me, and I'm not sure I'm up for being around people." Thankfully, my friends, understanding and supportive as ever, didn't pressure me to attend but reassured me nonetheless.

After some introspection and prayer, coupled with a bit of writing therapy, I decided to go. And I can confidently say it was the right choice. Being surrounded by people who genuinely care about me, some of whom I hadn't seen in months or even years, was like a breath of fresh air. The outpouring of love and support my son and I received was truly heartwarming and just what I needed at that moment. But that wasn't even the best part.

Returning home with newfound strength, I managed to complete a paper and submit it seven hours ahead of schedule, all while getting Ermias and myself ready for the week ahead. It made me feel like the ultimate multitasking mom juggling various responsibilities and doing it with finesse. Through this experience, I gained a surge of confidence in my abilities as a young single mother, realizing that I'm not just managing but excelling at it.

"I'm not just a single mother; I'm a superhero."

To my MUVAS:

You're not alone, and things do get better. Sometimes, you just need to get out of your head, look into your child's eyes, and tackle whatever comes your way. Even at just five months old, my son has become my greatest motivator, nudging me forward through every challenge and emotion. He inspires me to push through and get the job done.