I am struggling ...

Becoming a mother has been one of the most fulfilling experiences of my life, but it hasn't been easy. I'm only 26, and I've had to deal with a lot of changes to my body and emotions. Now that I have a four-month-old baby, I'm struggling to figure out how to adjust to my new role as a mother and all the challenges that come with it. I'm trying to find a balance between my old self and my new responsibilities, but it's not always easy. I know that being a parent is a tough job, but it's even harder when you're young and don't have a lot of experience. I've struggled with other people's opinions and expectations of me as a young, single mother, but I've learned to let go of those negative thoughts. I know that God has a plan for my life, and even though it's not always easy to trust Him, I know that He will guide me through this new phase in my life. I'm learning to embrace my new role as a mother and to be proud of all the things I've accomplished, both in the past and in the present.

To my Mamas ...

I can only imagine how tough it must be for you to adjust to your new role as a mom, especially at such a young age. It takes a lot of strength and courage to do what you're doing, and I truly admire you for that. Understandably, you would struggle with finding your old self while trying to navigate this new phase in your life. But please remember that you are not alone. Many new mothers feel the same way and it's okay to take some time to figure things out. It's also great that you recognize the impact that external opinions and comments can have on your self-perception. Ultimately, it's your life and your journey, and you should do what's best for you and your baby. Trusting in God and letting go of control can be challenging, but it can also be liberating and empowering. Remember to be kind to yourself and take it one day at a time.