Raising Kids with Vulnerability: The Power of Connection and Resilience

As a new parent, I am constantly amazed by my evolving parenting skills. Each day, I discover new depths of vulnerability that I can share with my son and others around me. I find strength in crying and hugging my baby during difficult times. Showing my frustration and being transparent with my emotions has become a powerful way for me to cope and grow.

Growing up, I often heard advice to shield children from negative experiences to prevent trauma. However, I believe in the importance of being open with my son about everything. I think hiding things from children can be a sign of laziness and a lack of accountability. It’s essential to demonstrate genuine parenting by facing challenges head-on.

Interestingly, I view my 9-month-old as a future adult. I understand that my role is to prepare him for adulthood by handling situations and people to the best of my ability. I must show him how to problem-solve, even when I don’t feel like it. My actions and character will shape the adult he becomes.

My pregnancy journey wasn’t easy, and co-parenting with his dad is challenging. Despite these struggles, I firmly believe in setting a positive example. Being a vulnerable and transparent parent who shows both the good and the bad is crucial. It’s important to demonstrate how to be solution-oriented and accept people for who they are without trying to change them. By doing this, I hope to help my son become the best version of himself.

So, don’t be a lazy parent. Don’t hide your emotions from your children. Embrace your flaws and stay connected with them in every way. Remember, it’s how you handle things that matters. Children learn more from the outcomes and how you navigate through life’s challenges.